My personal opinion, but I know someone's going to play the body shaming card on me.
It's an attraction stamp time! I don't know. If given by past experiences of physical attraction I don't care that much about body type. Fat, skinny, pear shaped, a stick, big boobs, flat, what the hell but - the one thing that's always managed to turn me away immediately is when a chick's boobs are so round and so perfect yet are massive, and it's immediately clear that they're fake.
Really, if we're going to go on deviantart standards and look at all the popular women who bend over and pop out their horribly fake breasts to the world, it's not the...bending over and popping out and becoming horribly popular on here that annoys me - it's the people who stand up.
Barely anyone has any good comebacks or real arguments to when someone expresses why, in their own opinion, it's not art. Every reply is either 'UR BOYFRIEND JERKS OFF TO THIS' 'UR JUST JELUS' 'UR JUST INSECURE' 'ALL OF UR FRIENDS JACK OFF TO THIS' 'U JUST WANT TO BE BEAUTIFUL LIKEHERR'.
Come up with something better than something that ultimately translates to 'STOP MAKING FUN OF MY MASTURBATION MATERIAL'.
It's all the worse when the fucking 'artist' herself says the same thing. Christ's sake.
But...I will stop there for that mini rant didn't have all too much to do with this. I'm just not a fan myself and I'm sticking to it.
Natural is beautiful. Whether that's an Almost-There A-cup or a Dammit-Take-Some-Away D cup.
Whether they're thin, curvy, heavy.
Blonde hair, black hair, red hair, whatever hair dye of the month.
Tanned, pale, white, colored...
I don't like seeing basketballs hanging off a girl's chest. It's an immediate turnoff for me and makes me want to start poking the plastic with a pin to see if it'll pop like a balloon. (lol)
That said, though - if that's what she likes, it's her body and she has a right to make that choice, too.
I think what it comes down to for me is I just like natural. I see no reason to augment, alter, change, etc one' body for society's taste. And this is coming from a girl who does not wear makeup, and does not nor has bothered with any of the "usual" female habits in terms of appearance. I wear my hair long, I wear my clothes comfortable, and if someone doesn't like how I look, that's on them.
The same goes for the men, honestly... I don't care if he's a walking brick shithouse, a skinny rail, whatever. They don't need to go out of their way to overdo the muscles - to me that's as much of an immediate turnoff as a girl walking around with basketballs stuffed into her bra.
It's called acceptance and self-esteem. The first one society SUCKS at, it wants everyone to conform. The second one is a direct result of the first one - many people strive to meet society's impossible standards, and thus we see things like penile implants, breast implants, nose jobs, etc etc etc... it's crazy.
Nature knows what she's doing. People don't know how to look in a mirror and accept themselves as they come. If more did that, we wouldn't see so much of this nonsense.
I find most of those procedures actually rather repulsive, particularly ones that involve huge breasts I tell them, if they want to make them larger, that's fine your body, but it does make the best friend repellent to me
People are so funny..... Women with no boobs want huge ones and women who naturally have them have to have them reduced because of back problems.
If you need to modify yourself for medical reasons, that's fine.....but if it's just to get more guys to call you sexy....it's the way you think that's the problem :l
There should be a two-for-one offer on this kind of thing, a woman has her bazungas inflated until they're bigger than her head and her daddy-man can have the exact same thing done to his balls; that way, they can both look rediculous together
Whether they're thin, curvy, heavy.
Blonde hair, black hair, red hair, whatever hair dye of the month.
Tanned, pale, white, colored...
I don't like seeing basketballs hanging off a girl's chest. It's an immediate turnoff for me and makes me want to start poking the plastic with a pin to see if it'll pop like a balloon. (lol)
That said, though - if that's what she likes, it's her body and she has a right to make that choice, too.
I think what it comes down to for me is I just like natural. I see no reason to augment, alter, change, etc one' body for society's taste. And this is coming from a girl who does not wear makeup, and does not nor has bothered with any of the "usual" female habits in terms of appearance. I wear my hair long, I wear my clothes comfortable, and if someone doesn't like how I look, that's on them.
The same goes for the men, honestly... I don't care if he's a walking brick shithouse, a skinny rail, whatever. They don't need to go out of their way to overdo the muscles - to me that's as much of an immediate turnoff as a girl walking around with basketballs stuffed into her bra.
It's called acceptance and self-esteem. The first one society SUCKS at, it wants everyone to conform. The second one is a direct result of the first one - many people strive to meet society's impossible standards, and thus we see things like penile implants, breast implants, nose jobs, etc etc etc... it's crazy.
Nature knows what she's doing. People don't know how to look in a mirror and accept themselves as they come. If more did that, we wouldn't see so much of this nonsense.
Sorry to go on so long. I'll shush now. LOL
Couldn't have said it any better
Reason 1. They're insecure about their body. They feel as though if they don't get them, no one will ever love them.
Counseling would probably be best on that one.
Reason 2. They've had their breasts removed because of breast cancer.
However, I can rant for hours on why physical beauty needs to no longer be a part of our society, so you can't really trust me on anything.
I tell them, if they want to make them larger, that's fine your body, but it does make the best friend repellent to me
If you need to modify yourself for medical reasons, that's fine.....but if it's just to get more guys to call you sexy....it's the way you think that's the problem :l